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Local Restaurants

Posted by auroracitizen on October 25, 2009

We are going to try a new feature on the site. One of our contributors suggested some local restaurants they thought were worth trying. So we have added a new tab across the top “Restaurants”.

Click on this tab and use this area as a discussion forum for restaurants that you have visited.

Offer your own feedback on restaurants you have tried. Agree or disagree. Better for families or couples. Casual or romantic. Lunch, dinner or just drinks. Share your stories.

Plus, if you have some suggestions for further tabs we would love to hear them.

NOTE: Comments have been disabled on this post. Please add your comment under the “Restaurant” tab on the main menu (see directly above). Comments previously made to this post have been moved to the restaurant tab. Thanks!

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Who is Responsible for Farmers Market

Posted by auroracitizen on September 25, 2009

If you believe the recent Letters to the Editor there seems to some confusion about who is responsible for the success of the Aurora Farmers Market.

Sher St Kitts, wrote a letter suggesting that Mayor Phyllis Morris and Councillor Granger were responsible for all that is good at the Farmers Market. It seems the only things she didn’t credit them with was sunshine and warm weather.

A number of citizens rightly pointed out that the Market was around long before either were involved and that if any Councillor was to be credited with the success, it should be Councillor Kean who was the driving force behind starting the market.

However, former Councillor Kean got it right when he shared the credit with those who are most deserving — the volunteers and the vendors. Without them there would be no market regardless of any Council involvement.

And of course, the most important people of all? The many people who visit the market to chat, purchase products and just enjoy the opportunity to be part of an event that reminds us all what a community is about.

So maybe folks should be less concerned about giving their political friends credit — and we should all celebrate the sense of community that activities like a Farmers Market represents — regardless of what politician you support.

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Volunteering: Is Respect Earned or Expected?

Posted by auroracitizen on September 24, 2009

Thanks to one of our contributors for this very thoughtful post.

Recently there has been some attention drawn to the role volunteers have in Aurora. I’ve been a volunteer in our community for about 15 years so I thought I’d share my perspective.

People recognize us for what we are. There aren’t a lot of interviews for getting a volunteer job in Aurora. We start at the bottom and work our way up. We get the response someone else feels we deserve, whether it is criticism or congratulations. Sometimes we get criticism and congratulations for the same thing, depending on how we affected different people.

Some of the criticism seems unpleasant but it has two very important side effects. First we stop taking ourselves so seriously. Second, we look at what we did and how we did it and decide if that is a good way to go in the future or if we should re-evaluate and change our ways. It’s much like having a job, but without a pay cheque. At least we don’t have to worry about the change in salary if we realise we need a change of career.

The congratulations are lovely and thankfully received with the realization that they should be shared with others, both volunteers and paid staff.

One thing volunteering has taught me is that I can’t do anything on my own. I can volunteer because my family supports my efforts, both in time and finances. I can volunteer because I have earned the trust of people. I can volunteer because people are willing to tell me what they need. If I want to make a change, I have to do it within the community.

As a volunteer, I have to work with other people who see the same problem, but may have different ways of getting to the goal of fixing it. We ask each other questions, and take the time to try to understand why each question was asked. When people start fighting about how to get to the desired end product, they are not serving anyone anymore.

Should volunteers have to stand up and ask for respect? Sure, but they have to earn it. They have to act like professionals, even if they aren’t paid that way.

For the record, my current volunteer activities in the Aurora community are: Convenor of Tyke House League for the AMHA, Co-chair of the School Supporters Association at Lester B. Pearson Public School, and Chair of the Aurora Public Library.

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Changes are on the Way

Posted by auroracitizen on September 23, 2009

You will be seeing some changes over the next little while. We will be moving this blog over to a more robust platform that offers improved features. So please stay tuned for the changes and we ask for your patience as the transition is underway.

For those of you who have bookmarked this blog, you will need to update your bookmarks to get the most current posts — we’ll let you know when that is available. For those who subscribed through Feedburner, we are hopeful the transition will be seamless — but we will let you know when you need to check your feed.

Also, we are very pleased to be welcoming our first guest moderator. We are excited about this because it has always been our desire that this be a community forum for discussion. Stay tuned for more info about that.

As this online conversation continues to grow and build readership we will also continue to publish posts from an expanding group of contributors. So please keep your comments and ideas coming.

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Anonymous is Upset

Posted by auroracitizen on September 7, 2009

Some commenter’s are upset that we have not published every negative comment they have posted about Councillor Buck — usually without making any reference to the actual post that everyone else is discussing. They call it censorship.

They will continue to be disappointed. This is not a vehicle for them to tell everyone how much they dislike Councillor Buck. That is not the purpose of the blog. It is and will continue to be a discussion.

We will continue to publish both positive or negative comments that are about the posts.

So feel free to disagree, just don’t make the sum of your comment “We/I hate Councillor Buck”.

Or, if you feel that strongly, we invite you to submit an article to be posted. Then that entire post will be about your topic and others can comment as they see fit — on that topic.

We will continue to try and keep comments related to the subject of the original post. We ask that commenter’s try to as well.

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Community Corner: Sense of Community Missing in Aurora

Posted by auroracitizen on August 30, 2009

To the Blog editor:

I’ve lived in three different provinces, in towns and cities of several different sizes, but having resided in Aurora for seven years now, I have decided that this must be the most backwards town in the country.

I’ve never seen such a poorly organized town, run by an incestuous group of buffoons. We’ve got major traffic problems, but can only deal with them by installing ridiculous chicanes on the side streets. We’ve got a good number of green spaces and, despite a high tax base — under the guise of being “green” — we can’t bear to spend the money to keep them groomed and weed-free. Our so-called “downtown” is little more than a street-side of vacant lots, empty buildings and “for lease” signs.

The latest antics of our Mayor and town Council are only more symptoms of some deep infection that plagues this town. What passes itself as a “community newspaper” is simply more of the same sycophants, a sort of newsletter for a group that considers itself the “in” crowd. (Could we possibly see any more pictures of Belinda Stronach flipping pancakes and cutting ribbons???)

I suspect there was a time when Aurora was a true community — the small town of yesteryear — but more and more, I find Aurora to be little more than a “bedroom” town — a place where people sleep in their homes until they can work elsewhere, dine elsewhere and shop elsewhere. Even after all these years, I find no underlying sense of community here. I just bide my time until my children finish school so we can move out of Aurora and find a normal place to live again.

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Bloggers Wanted

Posted by auroracitizen on August 18, 2009

If you are interested in sharing your opinions with other citizens of Aurora, we want to hear from you. Readership continues to grow and we are interested in expanding our base of writers.

You will never be required to publish according to a schedule and you can pick your favourite topic — sports, traffic, environment, youth, culture, politics — we don’t care.

Our only criteria is people who love living in this great town and want to share that passion.

Interested? Let us know. To start the conversation, send an email to communitycorner@auroracitizen.ca

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A little decorum would go a long way

Posted by auroracitizen on August 6, 2009

The comment below is from today’s Toronto Sun and it sounds a lot like Aurora. What lessons can be learned?

A little decorum would go a long way
Interim integrity commissioner blasts councillors for rudeness
By SUE-ANN LEVY, 6th August 2009

In a tiny paragraph of his annual report to council yesterday, interim integrity commissioner Lorne Sossin hones in on the immature and petty behaviour that has become the norm during meetings at Socialist Silly Hall.

He contends that the “lack of civility” he’s witnessed at several council meetings in the past year “is corrosive to an environment of mutual respect” and likely to “undermine public confidence in city council.”

When I contacted him for more specifics, Sossin, who leaves the city in early September, said the kinds of things he’s referring to run the gamut from “name-calling, casting aspersions on other councillors to indifference” — meaning councillors are often busy chatting with other councillors while their colleagues try to address council.

Like me, Sossin says he has seen plenty of “snickering, heckling” and other attempts to “demean and diminish colleagues.” He feels councillors need to “show respect” for their colleagues and the “office” since everyone has been elected to council by constituents, who want their views represented. “This petty back and forth … that’s where the lines need to be drawn,” he said.

Being far more diplomatic than me, Sossin wouldn’t name names. But, in my view, it is usually the same cast of characters — mostly the cabal of councillors in the mayor’s inner circle — who believe their self-righteous views are the only ones that are legitimate, and that those who dare disagree have no concern about the public interest.

I’ve lost count how many times I’ve seen and heard councillors such as Pam McConnell, Paula Fletcher, Adam Vaughan, Kyle Rae and Gord Perks loudly heckle right-of-centre colleagues who endeavour to provide a view other than that shared by them. Budget chief Shelley Carroll is often seen wandering around the council floor and committee rooms openly yakking and laughing with her leftist pals on council, whenever a councillor dares criticize one of her beloved mayor’s initiatives.

CITIZENS GRILLED

The rudeness isn’t just directed at councillors. I’ve watched many times in standing committees as councillors like McConnell and Fletcher grilled members of the public, who have come in to give their opinions, as if they were lawyers cross-examining opponents. Many councillors don’t even feign giving public deputants their undivided attention. They either leave the room, tap on their Blackberries or chatter with their seatmates. Maybe these rude, self-important politicians, apparently suffering from a political version of attention deficit disorder, need some lessons from Miss Manners.

Sossin says a problem at City Hall is that the Speaker — Sandra Bussin — does not have the same “authority” as speakers in Ottawa and at Queen’s Park — who can toss out politicians who don’t behave. In contrast, at City Hall, an ejection is “put to a Council vote,” he noted. The interim integrity commissioner believes councillors must take responsibility for their own actions and “not accept” a culture of incivility.

Coun. Mike Del Grande, who often finds himself heckled and cat-called by the mayor’s inner circle, feels there’s much more Bussin could do as council’s speaker. He says she hasn’t always been fair with her rulings and doesn’t work to stop the heckling as soon as it occurs.

Coun. Case Ootes adds Mayor David Miller does little to discourage the heckling and does not , in his view, set an example by applying council rules in a fair and equitable manner. “I lay a lot of the problems at the foot of the speaker and the mayor for playing fast and loose with the rules of the chamber,” he said. “That’s what causes the polarization of this council and the heckling and disrespect between councillors.”

SUE-ANN.LEVY@SUNMEDIA.CA

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Claiming “Offended” is Offensive

Posted by auroracitizen on July 28, 2009

The following was posted by Kevin Burns – Author and Attitude Adjuster, on his blog about leadership and corporate cultures. We thought is was worth sharing.

There is nothing that offends me more than someone who plays the “offended” card and claims righteous indignation. You can’t even have an attempt at humor around these people. Have a little fun and you can see that sour look coming over their faces and looking down their nose at you.

Worse yet are the people who feign offended when it serves to advance their own agenda. Politicians are really good at this one. In fact, in Canada today, there are a whole bunch of politicians pretending to be offended at what another politician supposedly said and turning it into a media circus. It’s cheap politics and it’s as transparent as bottled water.

People who claim to be offended are manipulators, plain and simple. Claiming to be offended is an act that people of poor self-worth pull when they want to get attention. It’s the equivalent to a child’s temper-tantrum, only supposedly more refined.

Their offended-act is a ploy to make the offender seem as though they are not as smart and refined as the one who claims to be offended. It’s childish. It’s counter-productive. And it will alienate and divide a good staff.

It makes the issue all about the person claiming to be offended and not about the issue itself. That’s selfish and offensive.

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Canada’s Birthday Town

Posted by auroracitizen on July 8, 2009

A reader asked, “Why is Aurora ‘Canada’s Birthday Town’?”

We’ve all seen it everywhere (for a long time) but we don’t know where and why it originated. Anybody know?

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